The Druidic College

Reflections

“It is difficult to say who do you the most harm: enemies with the worst intentions or friends with the best.”
Edward George, Earl Lytton

Traditional blood ties are random and at best happenstance. Whether we love, like or can even tolerate our blood relatives is as much a matter of chance as hitting even a small jackpot at the local casino. It can be done but …!

We often refer to the pagan or druidic ‘family’ when we speak of the macrocosm of those with similar beliefs as our own. We also, on a more intimate level, consider our grove or coven members as our magickal ‘family’, one that is sought out, chosen and mutually accepted. Our Druidic family is more vigilantly selected, or so we would like to think. We have many points in common; philosophy, religious attitude, reverence for the Earth and the old ways and values. These are the stuff that should bind us together.

The opening statement of our Rule asserts; “This Order exists … to serve the religious, spiritual and educational needs of its members within the Druidic, Wiccan and neopagan community. It is meant to support, nurture, educate and, when and where necessary, shield and protect its members.” What better definition of ‘family!’ Indeed, one of the most pertinent phrases in our oath of initiation goes on to say; “We do not travel this path alone, but in the good company of our fellowship. They guide and advise us, lending their strength and support when we are most in need. Always remember, that in return we owe them nothing less. Our bond is Truth, and through Truth, Trust.”

I remind you of these commitments because I am too frequently puzzled by the attitudes and actions of some who have freely accepted them and, in times of need, stress or trouble, fail to avail themselves of their benefits. All too often I hear words to the effect that, “I need to take a break (or leave) because I have so much stress in my life.”

My question is, “why?” Would that not seem to be the exact moment when one would most need to maintain and even strengthen these bonds? Is it not the time when one should draw upon the advice, support and strength of their fellows?

Perhaps, those who choose to flee and escape may not have been in the right place to start with. Or, am I failing to communicate the Order and Grove’s commitment to its members? So, I might suggest, if the time ever comes (and we sincerely hope it doesn’t) when your life reaches such a crisis point, take a few moments to assess your choices and know where and how you can seek assistance. Your fellows but await.

Slainte!

Ollam In Ruadh Rofhessa Archdruid OSO, and Chosen Chief, SOG